Mentors?

Sir/Ma'am,

Master and I have met three couples that we seem to have a common link with. Two of them are more openly active and we have reached out to them for some mentorship. To be honest, I am not quite sure what it means to have a mentor in the community. I don't know what is expected of either side.

Master, of course, does all the talking with the other Doms. I just feel like I still don't know what we are doing. It's nice to have people who are in the same area of the community and have some of the same goals.

As a slave and a bottom's bottom, I am not sure how to address other subs/slaves/bottoms etc. I also know that Sir/Ma'am is universal way to address a Dom/Top/Master but what about a switch? I'm kinda confused. I need order, rules, and guidelines in my life to help keep my Fibro and my submissiveness in check.

Because of my Fibro, I am not able to comprehend reading large amounts of information. However, wouldn't it be great if there was a handbook out there already???

From talking to some others, it seems that each community has it's own set of guidelines or rules. Wouldn't it be cool to get the Doms together to write a handbook on what it is to be a Dom/Top/Master in San Diego? After it is written have the subs/bottoms/slaves write a book on how to act as their role in San Diego? It's just a thought.

It would be nice to see very concise information on the community in each area. I guess I am nervous that having a mentor means the relationship between Master and I will change, and I'm not for that. I like having him to myself and want him to like me only having him. I know that in the very far future there is talk of experimenting, but I like where we are now.

I think I am open to clothed interaction with a mentor or friends. Maybe even some nudity, but I am not ready to let someone touch me intimately like Master does, if that makes sense. I know that in the past I have written of just wanting to be touched, but that's all. It's the idea that turns me on more than the act... that's what fantasies are for. It brings the "what if" into play.

So if I have a mentor or two... what is my obligation to them? What is their obligation to me? I haven't talked to anyone who has a mentor, or at least we haven't discussed that part of their lifestyle. I am interested to find out how mentorships tend to work with others out there.

Now, I will say that last night that our mentor, Mr. Inuncio, came into the mix. It was torture, and it was fun! Master had rolled me tightly in our comforter and then tied rope around me. I had my hood & blindfold on and Master just sat there reading his email and doing his thing online.

All of a sudden his cell phone went off. It was Mr. Inuncio had called to make a first contact with Master since seeing him last week. I told Master to tell him I said hi, and I got a ball gag in my mouth! I kept hearing Master say, "yes, definitely, exactly, thank you, I'll have to try that" My head was spinning wondering what our mentor was telling Master. I wasn't able to ask!

Master would beat me with the riding crop while he was talking to Mr. Inuncio. At one point I could hear our mentors voice and all I kept hearing him say was piss! What?!?!? Okay... now I wanted to be a part of this conversation and I couldn't be. I couldn't ask what was being said, I couldn't put in my two cents!

It was a pretty long conversation (Master doesn't do well on the phone) and when I got out, Master hardly mentioned anything that was said. Great. So, I am scared, worried and intrigued all at the same time. I am wondering what Master and Mr. Inuncio have in store for me now!

Well, I have some chores to do, including working on some pictures, I appreciate the time and attention that you have given me by reading this, Sir/Ma'am.

Sinfully Red
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